First : Online Profile Picture Get a digital camera. Take at least 5 pictures of yourself from different angles, and at least one in the mirror. Make an account at HotOrNot.com and test each picture. Keep testing pictures until you find the theme that makes one better than another.
· Keep in mind, most women view profiles when they are alone
· Make it seem like you are TALKING, not TYPING
· Be comfortable, conversational, with wit, intellect, and be FUN
· Make yourself seem like a CHALLENGE
· Communicate indirectly that your life is awesome and you’re always looking for ways to improve it.
· You want that potential girl to think she is winning the lottery if she gets to hang out with you (but you must be subtle)
· Use proper grammar. Women like smart guys, or at most, guys who passed high school English.
· This is NOT myspace. These are adults and so are you. Make it look clean, professional, yet playful at the same time.
For every girl you eventually talk to, you MUST find a way of figuring out what about the profile she liked. IMPROVE on this aspect immediately! REVISE any aspect she didn’t like!
Second: Interacting Online After the profile
Ok, so you have the profile setup, what now? First (if you haven’t already) create a separate email address for your online dating adventures. Don’t use some video game reference or a weird sounding name, make it deliberate, intentional, to the point. The main game to play at this point is called “profile tag”. Pay attention to girls that view your profile. If you view hers afterwards, and she views yours again, this is typically a sign of interest. Consider sending her a message, or hope she sends you one. The two sites I link to at the end of the report both take advantage of this feature so you won’t have to worry.
How to act
Ok, so you either messaged her or she messaged you. The most important quality to have is that you are a higher status than her. This means you don’t respond right away (you have more important shit to do, she’s nothing special, etc. etc.). It also means you don’t give her a bunch of compliments, offer to buy her anything or take her out. Communicate that you are currently living an amazingly fun, busy lifestyle and if she wants in that’s up to her.
Do not attempt to talk to her on the phone until you can tell she is VERY interested in the conversations, and that there is some potential SEXUAL tension building up between you two. If you notice this tension, you must take action IMMEDIATELY. Strike while the iron’s hot. Ask for her number via email or IM, and call her immediately. Show that you are an action-oriented guy.
“NO” is the Second Best Answer You Can Get!
Never Forget This Central Principle There are at least a hundred girls in your general vicinity that are playing this game. You WILL get some “No” answers, I promise you. But if you don’t go into the phone call with a fearless attitude then you are almost destined to fail. So what if you make a mistake, and say something stupid? The girl won’t care. If she does, you just saved yourself valuable time. Once you begin to accept that many girls have odd tastes/expectations and that getting “No” is no big deal, it will elevate your game, not to mention your self esteem.
TAKE ACTION NOW!
THIS IS THE MOST IMPORTANT STEP. IF YOU DON’T DO AT LEAST ONE THING (IE. CREATE A PROFILE) RIGHT NOW, YOU PROBABLY NEVER WILL. THIS IS YOUR CHANCE TO FINALLY GET THE WOMEN YOU DESERVE.
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